This is why I always say that being a server is one of the hardest jobs there is, Samantha. It’s physically, psychologically, and emotionally exhausting.

It’s no surprise that some people act this way, though. We’re constantly barraged with ads and other messages that tell us we’re special, particularly if you’re in the demographic that can access luxury items and experiences. “You’re worth it.” “You work hard. You deserve it.” “Demand the best.” “Insist on excellence.”

A restaurant server is as close as most people get to having a personal servant, and some of them take full advantage of it. I’d be curious to see what kind of a tip that jerk left. I’m guessing not great. Mistreating servers is also a way some people show off to a date or their friends. They think it makes them look important. It’s pathetic.