It’s all relative, isn’t it? I know it’s fashionable to beat ourselves (and others) up for being entitled, but it’s a wasted effort. I don’t think you’re a jerk for using what resources you have to your benefit anymore than I would begrudge someone a bottle of water just because not everyone around them had one. Life isn’t fair. The best we can do is to be grateful for what we have and to use some of it to help others. You did that. You get a pass in my book, Kristi.