I’m relieved to see that I already do or don’t do everything on your list that you do or don’t want people to do, Roz. (I feel particularly virtuous about my shopping cart return record.) The insensitive do-gooder gripe especially resonates with me. My former classmate told me my skin cancer was due to my failure to get enough exposure to sunlight. I’m also supposed to ground myself by walking around outside in my bare feet every day. I wonder how he’ll feel if he gets ringworm? I know how I’ll feel if he does. Happy New Year!