I knew a girl in high school who was having an affair with a married man. She was 15 and knew exactly what she was doing. She went after him. I almost felt sorry for the guy. Of course, he should have been arrested, since he, too, was responsible for his actions. Yes, people can be fooled, tricked, and taken advantage of, but not everyone is the victim they make themselves out to be. It’s a peculiar feature of modern life that so many people are willing and eager to wear the victim badge.