I didn't know he was married, but a young woman he messages should probably check before going any further. Google is your friend, ladies, and he doesn't have to be a celebrity for you to find out his relationship status. Here's the thing though, a lot of women don't care. They figure that's between him and his wife. Maybe they have an open marriage. Marriages take on many forms. We can't assume that most people share the same values because they don't.